In today's episode of "Messages from Crazy"
I posted a little while ago about how we have completely had it with Crazy's antics and constant messaging on thej OFW app, completely ignoring the communication guidelines we put in place specifically to shut her up. It is just not sustainable for 5yrs til SD is 18, and DH will be filing for Contempt (setting expectations low). The holdup is that, in true DH fashion, he lost the entire CO somehow, and he needs to get a copy of it to reference the exact reasons for contempt.
He had responded to one of Crazy's messages before our trip with "see you in court". She wrote again days later about something else that was not necessary and he responded that this app needed to get back to it's original intended use- necessary communication only. I wish he wouldn't respond at all, but at least he is showing he's trying to get it back on track.
Yesterday- She sent a message about SD's orthadontist appt. that DH took her to on Tuesday (SD got braces), and railed at DH about how he didn't send Crazy an after-care summary from the Dentist like he's supposed to (there wasn't one), and "why do we even use this app at all if you can't communicate about simple things? You put a braces tightening appt. on the calendar on OFW that's on my time, but are you planning on taking her or do I need to take off work? You are awful at everything and this is all documented", blah blah blah, on and on, and then the best part..."you are in Contempt of Court"! LOL. I just can't with her. So because DH mentioned he was going to file for Contempt of Court, she thinks if she tries to accuse him of things he did "wrong" on the app (further proving DH's case, btw, by not sticking to the communication guidelines), and then say he's in Contempt of Court, that somehow when the messages are reviewed, DH will be in Contempt of Court. I honestly have never met anyone dumber in my life. He didn't even respond. An hour later she sent another message about how DH "lost 5 of SD's pills while we were on our trip", and he can't even take care of her medicine and now she doesn't have enough for when she comes back to our house and DH will need to order more, and you don't even watch SD take her meds, blah blah blah. TWICE on the trip when SD was taking her meds, she dropped a pill and lost it. Which is ridiculous, she is old enough to hold onto pills and not repeatedly drop them after taking them for almost 10 years, but either way, we don't sit there and watch her take her meds (neither does Crazy), and even if he did, what would he have done, seen she was dropping the pill and dove at the pill like a fricking ninja and caught it in mid-air? Crazy seems to think DH should be mouth-feeding them to SD like a baby bird. Mostly, she just twists any situation into DH doing something wrong, and then uses OFW as a way to criticize him and try to make him look bad. (I honestly think she thinks people are reguarly monitoring these messages, but that only her accusations against DH matter).
She then called him "Puffy face" at the end of the message like a 3rd grader (we're assuming she saw pics from our trip, and that was her mad burn at DH). *lol*
The good part was that when DH took SD to the Ortho, she started talking to him about depression and asking questions, and said she can't talk to Crazy about this because Crazy dismisses it and says "all girls her age feel that way", and won't do anything. Which is obvious because WHILE DH was receiving the ridiculous messages from Crazy on OFW, he also got a call from the psychologist's office that DH set up an appt. for SD with, saying Crazy had called them and "the appt. was on her time and she was going to be working, so she wanted DH to reschedule and set up an appt. on his time". ARE YOU SERIOUS??? Your daughter has been talking about suicide, this is the soonest appt. we could get (August) and you are trying to reschedule a VIRTUAL appt. that DH was going to attend virtually also (Crazy doesn't have to be there and we were hoping she wouldn't be) to a later date for no reason?? DH said, no this is virtual and I will be on the call also. They said that was fine. Unbelievable. When DH and SD got home from the ortho, it was around noon and DH said once SS was up and ready in a few mins, SS would probably drive them to Crazy's for their week there. SD said, Oh, well I don't mind staying here til this afternoon if SS wants to. Which is nice, and nothing she ever says. She's always so ready to go to Crazy's. But also, it's time to go girl! 8 days with 6 of them being spent completely together is enough for me. They left shortly after.