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GREAT WEEKEND AND TODAY SD COMES BACK< I HATE THIS!!!!

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Submitted by daisy0202 on Mon, 01/16/2012 - 7:39am

So this weekend was so nice...of course DH recieved some calls from SD but not alot like he usually gets.....

But today she comes back and since I am working till only 12 DH asked if I could pick up SD from BM's.....MY ANSWER>>>AHHHH NO!!!! I am not picking her up after all that happened so DH was not to happy but i explained to him when she can talk to me with respect I will have no problem but after that text I AM ALL SET....Of course he says she said she was sorry...Oh really and then she smiled that cocky smile...I am all set DH sorry....He called after he left from work to tell me he understands and hopes this will end soon....It will end when your daughter understands I am your wife not your slave and hers.....I am nice to her, I am not rude or totally ignore her...BUT I AM NOT GOING OUT OF MY WAY!!!! not happening....It sucks because my stomach is already in knotts knowing that at 4 she will be there messing up my house, hanging all over daddy at her age, putting her feet all over my coffee table, OMG the list goes on....OHHHH and lets not forget bringing all her shit back from BM because BM does not do laundry...Already told DH I am not doing all her laundry this time either you do it or she can do it....and to boot she will leave it all at the top of the cellar stairs like "SM DO IT"!!!! Guess what girly...I AM NOT THIS TIME>>>YOU WILL LEARN A LESSON HERE!!!! }:) I dont care if it sits there all week....I will throw it down the stairs and leave it there....This feels good I have to say!!!!

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Submitted by daisy0202 on Mon, 01/16/2012 - 8:41am

I am angry...I am angry that this little girl thinks she can tell me what to do, act like I am the maid of the house, and just get away with it....No if i were to treat her like SHIT I do not think this little girl would be very happy.....I think I am more upset than anything....I bend over BACKWARDS for this little shit and i just keep doing it thinking something will change and it never does. Its not like she is a toddler she is 16 going on 6, I mean come on already give me a break. I have been in her life since she was 11 obviosly I am not going anyway. What really hurts is I do so much to just "be a family"....I feel bad at times about her BM being such a "looser", is the only way to describe her...So I try to make it better for SD16 but always get a slap...I am just so tired of when she is home with us I hate comming home because i feel like an outsider when she is there....And to boot this is MY HOUSE....My DH and his daughter moved in when we got married. So I hate that today and tomorrow she will be there and its like she pushes me right out of the way like her and my DH are the only ones that are there and me and my son 14 do not matter....IT PISSES ME OFF.....I hate this feeling I really do...I am hoping disengaging works....

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Submitted by dispiritedstepm... on Mon, 01/16/2012 - 8:49am

honey i agree with u sooooooo much. i hate when my sd is here...and she lives with us full-fuckin-time!

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Submitted by daisy0202 on Mon, 01/16/2012 - 8:53am

OMG.....I had SD for 1 month last month it was a NIGHTMARE!!!!!! and to boot this weekend she told her father i don't know if I comming back to moms for awhile....I tried to ignore the comment and I am just hoping for the best and it blows over....She fights all the time with BM....But I am noticing that its mostly when SD does not get her way they fight and she runs to daddy who lets her get away with alot...he's getting better but we are not fully there yet!!!