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Wicked stepmo.'s picture

So last night BM stopped by to drop off clothes for precious princess because SO took a stand that he wasn't buying either SK anything.

Well PP conned her way into getting BM to drive an hour out of her way to drop PP off at BMs neices house because it's so horrible at our house.

Apparently BM has no plans on changing. PP is at our house as a punishment for beating up mom's BF and that lasted 3 days before BM is giving her what she wants. I am pretty sure it's only a matter of time before BM convinces BF to let PP come back. BM has always favored PP.  I sometimes think she sees PP as a friend since BM doesn't have any friends of her own.

It think BM would never have sent PP to our house at all if she wasn't at risk for being homeless and losing custody of her 3 year old.  

That leaves YSD who has been a ruthless B. SO made the decision to stand his ground and is going to start locking both SKs phones at night because they are both failing. Of course this sent YSD over the edge.

YSD doesn't push her luck with me to far because she knows from past experience I will repossess everything I ever bought for her which is everything she has at my house. 

That being said she has been unbelievably rude and vulgar so I blocked her on my phone and told her not to talk to me until she apologizes and changes her attitude.  I'm not going to let her take her frustration out on me.

She won't hold out long because I am the only one who pays any attention to her. SO has no patience for her teenage attitude so he usually avoids her most days tinkering in his workshop because his blood pressure goes through the roof.

I have actually been amused because she has been trying to hang out and be all buddy, buddy with DS for company. But, he is a typical 13 year old boy and they have absolutely nothing in common. 

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1st3rd5thWEInHell's picture

I highly recommend to ignore, ignore, ignore.

SS15 did the same thing to me last summer and i have cut him off ever since. I barely look at him when he comes over. I throw away anything that belongs to him if he forgets about it here and i dont replace hygiene anymore.....not my problem

Leave her be a bitch, trust me she wont mind or feel any loss by not interacting with u. She will just complain to be bored, tough luck but great for u!

Wicked stepmo.'s picture

LOL, no but the problem for me is we have been friends since we were kids, so it makes things more difficult because we have always had that friendship.

tog redux's picture

I was wondering that, too.

Move out and be friends again. Or still date but from separate households.Your DS deserves better and you do, too.