Woke up still seeing red.
Last night after working both jobs and DS attending summer program and then wrestling right after. We get home at 8pm.
There have been no issues at home and everyone has been getting along great.
Cue last night as soon as we walk in the door, no hi how was your day, nope!
SO immediately starts in on DS to go outside and clean up the dog poop. Mind you it has been pouring rain all day until just before we got home. I say no DS hasn't eaten dinner and has to eat it's late.
SO loses it and goes off on a ridiculous tirade about how he doesn't want to step in dog poop when he mows the lawn.
Umm are you planning mowing wet grass at 8pm at night?
I tell SO no, DS is going to eat dinner that's my final say. SO then goes off about how hasn't eaten all day and there are priorities.
First off you are a grown a$$ man and if you haven't eaten that's your fault. Second it's neglect to not feed a child.
SO says that's BS. So I tell him we can call CPS right now and ask Thier opinion.
SO then proceeds to pout and play the martyr. I tell DS right in front of SO to eat, and just keep his distance from SO because he is in a pissy mood and wants to take it out in everyone else.
I haven't spoken to SO since nor do I plan to. I know exactly what this is about I have been through this with him enough times. The only time he acts like a raving lunatic is when
1. He has found something out about SKs from people he knows and is humiliated and embarrassed.
2. He was as text fighting with one or both SKs.
And frankly I am sick of it. I am also sick and tired of his kids only responsibility is to remember to breath air, but it's okay to have a double standard for DS. We have been over this 100x in counseling that he needs to worry about his own kids and let me worry about mine.
I have never once asked him to mow the lawn so he is free to not do it if the dog poop isn't picked up at his convenience.
We have vacation planned in a week, I am so aggravated I am seriously thinking of leaving him home.