So this isn’t actually about my SD this is about some problems I’m having with my SO .So I’ve always been kind of envious of BM my SO was so head over heels for her and obsessed with her honestly he let her walk all over him cheat on him all the time spend all of his money leaving him completely broke. And would never leave her only reason it ended was because she finally left for another guy 3 years ago.
Now my jealousy and insecurities come in with he married her no question no hesitation they had a baby on purpose and had a second one on purpose but unfortunately she lost it. Now that we are together he tells me he doesn’t want to get married ever again or have another child. Which is things I would like in the future which he knows. Now the biggest problem is he won’t work in the last year he has had one job that lasted 2 weeks before he quit. We live with my mom since he won’t work I work come home and clean make dinner do the laundry and take care of my daughter and his daughter because he’s to addicted to his video game to do anything besides that.
my jealousy is that when he was with her he has told me he was working and he got her a big house and spoiled her and did everything he could to keep her happy. But with me he can’t even work to help me with the bills he sleeps in all day I have to get up early with the kids and feed them and take care of them I’m the one who goes to work and I’m the one who cooks and cleans because it won’t get done other wise why could he do all these things for her but with me I don’t even get the bare minimum of help around the house .
He told his ex we would keep thier daughter without discussing with me first and has pretty much left me to raise her. I feel as though he’s another child that I’m taking care of idk how it got to this and I don’t know how to get out I’m kinda stuck I can’t leave because then they would have no where to go or any money or anything I love him but I’m not sure I can even take it anymore I just need some advice.