Long time no Stalk!
Well I'm sure all of you can guess, my wonderful little world has been crashing around me for the last day. Why else would I return to rant about my life, right?
I have 38 days left till my due date. My pregnancy is going awesome. I have been healthier then ever before and I just love being pregnant!
Me and Dh have been going to councilling and it has helped alot. My own personal councilling has helped me out alot too.
Now for the last bit of my life....
SD and BM.
BM has lost it. Part of my "homework" from both councillors has been to interact with her more (because I'm better at it then Dh) and to try to see her as a person and not an enemy.
Well WRONG!!! WTF was I thinking? She IS the enemy!
I have been bending over backwards to seek her opinion on how we deal with SD4. Anything from potty training to mealtimes. I wanted her to feel respected. I called her in the middle of last month to ask about Sd's 4th bday party. If she was going to do something big we would do something small ect. So she says she's having the party on the 22nd. ok. Dh plans to take a day off work to go to this dumb bday party. Then her parents find work and she changes the day to the 27th. She says its probably going to be a family thing because she can't get ahold of SDs friends. ok. So me and dh plan to go to the next town over to shop for food ect before baby that day.
Now thursday she calls and says its going to be everyone and Sd REALLY wants us to be there.
We said we can't.
We pick up SD yesterday and tell her we can't but lets do a parent dinner on the 22nd so that SD can see us getting along just for her.
She calls later that night and tells Dh that I have to butt out because I have been trying to make plans to ensure we wouldn't go to this party. She also says if we don't go then she is going to stop our every weekend access and "go back to the court order" which is an out of town ruling saying DH is to have generous and reasonable access, one month in the summer, one week at spring break and alternating holidays. She seems to think she can just change her mind after us being in this routine since Jan.
I have bent over backwards for this girl. I have tried everything to make her life easier and have shown her every respect that I would want. And now, 5 weeks before baby me and Dh have to call a lawyer and go back to court.
I wish she would just disappear.