When do you give up?
So here I sit in early labour, waiting for DH to wake up so we can drive the two hours to be closer to the hospital, and all I can think about is Munchkin (SD4) and how her newly preggo mom is planning on moving her away again to live with another new guy in another new city. This is the third move this year and the second StepDad for munchkin.
Dh is ready to just give up. He's shrugging it off and is thinking about just asking for one or two weekends a month (we get her every weekend right now). It just breaks my heart. I wish I could stand up and fight for her. It feels like I'm losing her again, and at such an important time. She is frustrating but really she's my little buddy and I'm going to miss her.
Realistically we don't have the money or time to do the big court battle we would need to go through. I'm just feeling so defeated right now. I wish BM could have waited a month, or even pulled this last month. But right now, there is nothing I can do. I am literally having a baby. Maybe I can convince DH to see a lawyer while we wait for labour to progress.