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Wow... just wow...

Thetis's picture

So I'm sitting here reading Bonus Families, thinking about how awesome it would be if I could have a relationship with Bm like the girls from the site. I'm thinking about all the shitty things that have happened and all of the trouble that we have gone through. The site talks about how Bms usually have the same type of insecurities as the new girlfriend/wife. Then there is a knock on the door.
Dh looks at me...
"Were you expecting anyone"
Me...
"No..."
We are both completely confused. SO I get up to answer the door and Dh follows behind me.

Its Bm and the Munchkin.

Bm had done up little Valentines Cards for both me and Dh. Munchkin gave us a hug and a kiss and said "Happy Valentines Day!"
I gave BM a hug and literally had tears in my eyes telling her how awesome it is that she would do that for us. She also has little cards for Munchkin's cousin, Grandpa and Aunt.

Stupid preggo hormones... now I'm laughing and crying. God I hope this is the trend we can expect. If it is the proposed holiday plan from Dh wouldn't be that far fetched. Its soo good to see her try as much as Dh.

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stepmom008's picture

Oh wow - that was really nice of them Smile Maybe it's a sign...

"There are two things over which you have complete dominion, authority, and control over - your mind and your mouth".

Snarky's picture

Pregnant or not, that IS something that would bring tears to ones eyes. I hope that kind of thing continues for you.

If BM showed up at our doorstep unexpectedly I'd think it was Halloween b/c that bitch is friggin UGLY.

Time is a great teacher, but unfortunately it kills all its pupils ... - Louis Hector Berlioz

Thetis's picture

I totally expected some court papers or something...
That was really nice of her though.

Tryn2MakeIt's picture

I would literally drop over dead! If BM showed up on our doorstep & wasn't bitchin' about us, I'd be checking the envelopes for traces of anthrax! LOL! Biggrin

soverysad's picture

I'd call the cops if Wingnut knocked on my door. Just don't trust the crazy!

"God is great, beer is good, and people are crazy" and you can't change crazy!!

tsrw0615's picture

Very Good. Hopefully that was done with all heart. Lets hope that she did not just show up just to see how pregnant you were. Nonetheless, you should have asked her to call before coming. It's not cool to have your BM show up at your place unannounced- or anyone else for that matter. Would hate for her to interrupt a breastfeeding session or an extreme bonding moment.

Thetis's picture

"Lets hope that she did not just show up just to see how pregnant you were"
Damnit... never thought of that. But if it is the case HAHAHAHA I've only gained 6 pounds and I have a very beautiful little baby belly!

"Would hate for her to interrupt a breastfeeding session or an extreme bonding moment."
Good point. I think it was kinda just a spur of the moment thing.