It was DH's weekend again to have the skids. He went and got a trailed on Saturday so I watched the skids for him for a few hours. Then yesterday for about half a day I left to have some "me" time. When I got home I made some hamburgers. The trash was full and I saw all this food in the trash. OSS had cooked food but wasted most of it and I saw one of the hamburgers I cooked in the trash. I told DH that this is not acceptable. SS has been told time and again if he doesn't want food then leave it on the counter.
I could've fed the hamburger to my dogs and mixed in their dog food instead of him wasting it. So DH calls OSS out to the kitchen and asks him why he threw all that food away. SS looks at him with a blank stare and says that he didn't want to hurt my feelings. I asked him why would you think that you would hurt my feelings. He said because you aren't a very good cook. I laughed and said I am a way better cook than your mother is.
I know that I probably shouldn't have said that but I was so frustrated that it just came out. I told him well I bet you wouldn't say this to your mother or be disrespecful to her or your stepdad like you are to your dad and me. I said stop wasting food you don't buy it and you can start making your own food from now on since I am not a very good cook.
I told DH that I meant what I said that his kid can make his own food from now on. I guess I was being petty attacking BM but it felt good to do it. This kid idolizes BM and his stepdad and treats DH and me like garbage and frankly I am tired of it! Was I out of line?