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Totally non step related.

So my sister is married to a wealthy guy, lives in a million dollar plus house in CA. Two years ago when she moved she did hire movers BUT my parents came out there and help pack her and manage the move and the unpacking process. Let me point out, my sister doesn't work and never has to again and has a great husband and unlimited resources.

My lease is up in June on the house that asshat ex husband and I rented before the divorce. I got most of our belongings and all the financial responsibility of a place chosen based on two incomes. I have been doing it on my own. They are going to sell the house not release so I will need to find a place and switch my sons school and daycare...limp around through the summer with having to drive all over the place for summer day care ect....

I am going to have to hire movers for most of this ( I am not rolling in it so it is a huge expense ) My BF is an over the road truck driver so his schedule is unpredictable so I can only count on him so much... I can't plan a move around him ( and we have only been dating since middle of August) so I texted her that I had texted our brother who lives 2 hrs away and is a power house asking for some help. She texts me back and tells me that I am a big girl hire movers and have my BF help me. WTF!

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New guy is awesome. He is great to me and bs. I only wish he were home more. He loves me to pieces.

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They will help some, but the moving of heavy stuff no. Oh and let me add, I have fing MS and a bad back. I am very active and work out a lot but I am not as strong as I used to be either.

MY BF is awesome but he is only home every 2 weeks and only gets 2 weeks vacation and is having surgery this fall and needs some for then. He will help as much as possible but it is not his place.

The good thing is my brother the power house and his wife are much more giving people then my sister. SHe always mocks him being a big red neck ( with a great job). He is but he is one of the hardest working men I know and wish i would have married someone like him.

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Thanks ladies for the support, some times my sister just doesn't get it. She called last night to talk ( we didn't discuss this) about our parents. They stay with her for almost 3 months every winter. I just let her complain and vent, it is not worth fighting with her.

This was kind of funny, My BF and I talk every night especially when he is out on the road. He has met my aunt and my sister's family ( liked them) and has yet to meet my parents or my brothers family. I actually think he and my brother will really hit it off. Yes people I am dating a red neck, blue collar, hard working guy and LOVE IT!We were talking about my brother and what a good guy her is and I said this may so odd but I wish I had married someone like my brother instead of the 2 guys I did marry. ( I had been sharing some stories last night about what a douch bag my first husband had been and he was the good one out of the 2 )BF says to me too bad you didn't marry me 20 years ago instead.

I had to laugh as he used to be a long haired harley driving earing wearing truck driver and yours truly has always been a nice girl ( I do have a couple of tattoo's but if you saw me I am pretty tame). Also he lived with a woman for 19 years and never married her and getting married isn't really on his bucket list and that works for me.