We actually worked out the property exchange issue last night and we are going to do the exchange in the next couple of weeks, when both his dad and the kids can be there. I told him I have no interest in keeping his stuff it is all out in the garage, he could probably take some of it in his car.

We actually had a real conversation and lucky for me his sane personality was present. We discussed summer vacation schedule and bs's birthday ( he will not be at the party). He actual apologized to me and told me that he hopes that someday I find someone who will treat me well because he didn't and I deserve a lot better than what he gave me.

Now trust me I don't trust him one bit that he can stay this guy. I WILL NOT LET MY GUARD DOWN. This was the guy I married and loved. I told him based on past experience that he can turn on a dime and go the other way. I told him that he needs to be a good dad that he has wonderful children and he needs to set a good example. I told him that BS asked if we were getting a divorce because he was mean to me and that he had asked me why couldn't I just ignore daddy when he yelled at me so he could live with us. I told him when he is with them he needs to be present and not checked out. He said he is still in therapy and working on his issues and is feeling pretty good... and I hope he is.

I am done, moving on, know that captain douchbag will show up again, but for now I accept his apology and am moving on to a great life.