Can't Understand Normal Thinking
This is a phrase we use in email communications with BM. It has an underlying meaning that makes us smile...especially since BM hasn't figured it out yet
Can any of the readers here figure it out?
Anyway, BM has an agenda at the moment...besides her usual agenda of just trying to make things as difficult as possible for us (and everyone around her).
A couple weeks ago, she requested 3 months worth of paystubs from DH so that she could review them for possible change in child support. We sent her ONE...the most recent, which happened to be from DH's one weeks vacation that he takes this time of the year. We were not about to send her all 3 months worth (without a court order) because DH has worked a little bit of over-time and we knew that's what she was after...even though child support paid by DH is based on a 40 hour week because over-time is not "guaranteed".
Well, we got an email last night, from BM, that confirmed what I just told you.
While we appreciate you finally sending your paystub to us, we would really prefer that it wasn't a vacation paystub, and we expect you to send us the 3 months worth of paystubs that we originally asked for. SS had told us several times that you were working a lot of overtime lately, so we really have to question the validity of the single paystub you sent us, especially since it was for a week of vacation. Please send us the 3 months (January - March 2008) that we originally requested, or we will have no choice but to go through the process of contacting child support enforcement.
Xxxx and Xxxx
She's such a (see title of blog)!!!!!
I'm sure she "questions the validity of the single paystub...since it was for a week of vacation" because when BM and DH were married, DH NEVER got to take an actual vacation. He worked and sold his vacation back to the company he worked for so that it was like getting a double paycheck....this was BM's idea because she's VERY GREEDY!!!! Since DH and I met, he actually takes a vacation....by God, He and I work hard all year long and EARN that vacation time....plus, I'm not money hungry like BM. The only reason DH has worked what little over-time that was available a couple months ago was because I've been off work due to an injury and we needed the money. This over-time came at a good time for us financially and hasn't been available again for about a month now.
Anyway, I'd like to see her go to child support enforcement because they will laugh in her face. There is no COURT ORDER that states any over-time shall be considered toward child support and without a court order, child support enforcement can't do a thing. Besides, BM has to prove that DH works overtime on a consistent basis....which he doesn't. In fact, he's even told them when he has his kids are at our house, he won't even work MANDATORY over-time.
I have a feeling that she'll push it, and that's fine because she's only cutting off her nose to spite her face....AGAIN. I just hate that we'll have more attorney fees to pay
God, I wish that woman would get a different hobby!