I know there are a lot of you out there who deal with this same scenario....SK's clothes are "marked" for visitation and are in general....rags.
Anyway, lately, while doing laundry when SK's are here I have noticed that their underwear has not been marked with the usual "V" for visitation. That is, until I did laundry this morning. SD's panties were marked "PV". Took me a minute of thought to decide what that stood for considering her first name starts with a "J" but I finally figured it out.....I'm sure it means "Period Visitation" considering on this coming Tuesday, it will be 28 days since she had her first period while at our house for summer visitation.
BM really needs to get a life!!!