Not my job to facilitate relationships
My SD 8, She FaceTimed at 10 PM a couple days after OUR baby was born and we were home (baby was couple days old). We had a 14 mo and NB at the time. When I saw it, it was 5AM. I forgot she reached out and didn’t tell him for a couple days until I remembered about it. He is now upset because I didn’t respond and I took a couple days to tell him. He tried reaching out to her, sending her pics of the new baby, FaceTime attempts, call attempts, and she never responded to HIM. Now, 5 weeks later, he’s unloading some resentment about her reaching out and me not responding to it. His excuse for his anger is that if it was my niece (who I’m extremely close to, like look at her as my first daughter) I would have responded to when I woke but not his DD. Was I wrong to kind of ignore if?? She hasn’t responded to any or bfs texts or FaceTime in the 5 weeks since she came over to meet new baby. I don’t feel like it’s my job to facilitate these relationships.