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Submitted by step off already on Sun, 03/30/2014 - 2:02pm

Bm sends dh a text last night that reads something like this:

I don't want to fight you in court. You can have full custody. Take care of our son. You're a good dad. I'm homeless. I have nothing to live for.

Court is Wednesday for her to pay child support based on the case dh opened with the department of child support services. Wonder if she will show or if this was just another drunken text after a fight with her gf.

I suppose her gf finally had enough of her (for the weekend at least) and no longer wants to put up with her cheating ways. (Read previous blogs for more fun info on that).

Dies she realize that not showing up in court will work against her? Does she realize she'll need to pay more in support if she doesn't do her visitation?

We'll see.

Next steps: If she doesn't show in court on wed and declines her visitation this weekend, dh will file for sole custody. Wonder if she'll call on mon and wed for her court ordered calls.

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Submitted by RainbowsAndDaisies on Sun, 03/30/2014 - 7:46pm

We used to get the "I don't want to fight any more" Bs from bm. It was always followed by her making demands, throwing a screaming bloody tantrum when she didnt get her way and blaming dh for "not getting along"

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Submitted by step off already on Mon, 03/31/2014 - 12:11pm

The craziest thing (well, not really. Just one if the many). Dh and bm are not even fighting for custody in court. Custody is settled and bm sees ss eewe.

They do have court this week where the judge will create an order for support based on the current custody arrangement.