Oh it's going down tonight
This morning dh came home after dropping kids at school. Pissed at ss14. SS had scouts last night and dh saw that a school friend was there. Dh asked ss how friend liked scouts and SS said that he thought it was lame but he was going to continue til eagle scout. SS said he was quitting in June.
Dh got pissed and told him he could pay us back the $350 we've paid so far (as he just started) and he can just quit now. That was the end of the story til after school. SS knew he was in deep shit. The ride home he kept grabbing dh's shoulder, "I love you dad".
Fast forward till the talk when dh demanded SS go into his coffers to get the $350 for ss's scouts. SS really lost it as he counted out his money (which I knew was the one and only item he cared about).
It escalated quickly. SS used lots of curse words. SS tried to give me the "big man" shoulder as he walked out of his room, down the stairs as I held the baby. Ss even took a few swings at dh while he cussed him out, called him my puppet and told him how awful he was and how he wanted to go live with bm
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WTF is it with 14yo
WTF is it with 14yo stepkids!
All mouth and attitude and think they rule the world.
Stay safe with your baby!
So we told him to call bm and
So we told him to call bm and let her know he wanted to live with her.
At his pint in all for it. No one will live in my house and treat me, my child, or my husband this way.
He caled her and dh kept telling him to tell her what happened. SS: "I'm a fucking spoiled sick, I am ungreatful, can I jusy live with you"
Bm's first response must have had been pointed at me as I heard SS say, "no, it wasn't her. I'm being disrespectful".
We've gone round and round for an hour. SS and dh have explaineed the situation to bm (and dh actually heard bm telling bm that he needs to respect me and dh).
Yup - read my mind! She's
Yup - read my mind! She's sitting there on the other end of the phone going "no WAY in hell, think fast, talk my way out of this!" in her head of course!
Ss cried to bm, "mom can I
Ss cried to bm, "mom can I live with you". Basically the answer was hell no after hours on the phone with DH and ss. She even spoke with me be I gave her my view of what went down. She butcher at SS, telling him he was to behave, be respectful, etc, etcetera.
It was wite nice to have her backing is up ( ehen at the beginning, I could tell she was trying to blame it all on me but SS was responding, " no, she didn't say that, I"M saying that")
This kids life is seriously about to change. BM won't take him but while he's at school tomorrow, his room is getting stripped. No more skinny jeans and Jordan. Hello wranglers!!!!
TV off the wall ((previously we'd tKe the cords but this time I wantt him to really feel it)
This kid is on my shy list.
Over
Done. School only. end of story.