dh called to talk to ss this morning and had to remind bm that they have specific times they are allowed to call. in the evening its 7pm to 730pm. if the parent not with ss does not call at this time they lose their chance to talk to ss, unless already previously arranged because parent with ss would not be able to answer during mandated time. welllllllll, big freaking surprise bm has called EVERY day out side of that time! even when she has ss, she has ss call dh before 7pm. So after several days of dip shit just not being able to get it, dh reminds her....lets see how this goes.

anyways, ss tells dh (ss is with bm today) he will be cleaning his room and then going to visit grandma...my mil. so bm is going up to spend the day with mil and ss. awwwwww how cute...mind you 2 weeks ago, mil told dh that the ball is in his court that she wants to repair their relationship, he told her that if she even wants to speak to him she must first stop speaking to bm....she cant even go a week of doing that for her son which she supposedly cares so much for! I just dont see how the rest of my in laws are so blind! Do any of you get mad at your inlaws because they just stand by and allow mil to be a raging manipulative bitch? do these people think they are "good" people to allow their mom/daughter to treat her child this way? I just dont get it....but then again...knowing that crazy is crazy, and you cant fix crazy, im glad that this nit wit really drives it home once a week for dh that his mom is a horrible person, because i dont have to deal with her at all! it is really sad though that his family truly is so shitty.