Ok Ladies and Gents, help me out with this shitty situation.
About 6 years ago my FDH did a makeup artistry course and passed with flying colours (the shit head is actually very good, I much prefer for him to do my makeup rather than myself most of the time lol). Although he has a totally different full time job he has done some bridal parties makeup every now and then.
Anyhow this is where my dilemma comes in, to cut a long story short, BM is engaged and apparently from what the skids tell us she has issues with her FMIL and they don’t speak as the FMIL doesn’t like BM (I have never met BM’s FMIL, but she sounds totally awesome ) . So BM was telling skids that her and her BF have a wedding coming up on BF side of the family and FMIL is going to be at this wedding. She told the skids that she wants to look hot and amazing to shove it up FMIL and that she wants MY FDH to do her makeup for that night :jawdrop: .
Skids told FDH and then FDH asked me if I would mind as he doesn’t, he asked me right in front of the skids. Let me just say that BM and I don’t have a terrible relationship, we can communicate quite well when it come to the skids and I know that her and my FDH have no romantic feelings for each other. BUT I still don’t want him to do it. I didn’t say anything in front of the skids just got the full story from them and looked at FDH and walked away. It wasn’t until the skids left that I told FDH not a hope in hell and here are my reasons why:
1. I don’t want him to ever be that close to BM and have to touch her in any which way.
2. In the past this woman has disrespected me and made our life hell so I’m not interested in helping her arse out with anything.
3. This reason is completely petty – I don’t want BM to look good
4. BM lost the right to ask MY FDH to do anything for her when she kicked him out of the house and broke up with him after 12years.
FDH still thinks it’s not a big deal and that I should be okay with it.
Should I be okay with this? Am I just over reacting and being silly?
Any thoughts and opinions would be much appreciated