Court cannot come soon enough
So, SS is with mom. We find videos that he posted on his tiktok, one with a voice saying that they were depressed and going to kill themselves (Didn't sound like SS, but in a way did), the other video he typed a message on it saying "should I kill myself?"
BD and I called his phone several times with both our phones with no answer, BD called BM and informed her. She dismissed it claiming that he's just trying to be "tiktok famous" and "that's not his voice." Told BD that he did not have his phone because he was grounded from it.
BD requested for her to keep an eye on SS and she replied with, "Okay, but I know my son. He's not depressed. He's fine. He wouldn't be acting the same if he was depressed."
An hour later, I get a text from SS's phone saying, "You need to stop asking me questions. You are not my mom. I don't like you."
Nice try BM.
Locked the phone immediately, and know for a fact that SS still doesn't have it or else he would have called BD on BM's phone to get it unlocked. The phone is on my phone plan and I am paying for it. It is also linked with my ICloud through Apple so I had authority.
Just not sure what to do. SS had made claims last summer about not wanting to "exist" and he definitely knows what suicide is because BM has threatened infront of him in the past. We are currently in the middle of a custody battle and are waiting for court.