How yesterday/last night unfolded
DH went to have lunch with SS at school. Since his phone had "not been working" and we talked him through different settings and couldn't figure it out, DH was told by BM to take a look at it when he got to SS state. DH asked for it. SS said he left it at home (NO WAY THAT WAS TRUE). After school, DH stayed to watch football and take him to dinner since BM finally replied. DH finally got his hands on his phone. Guess who has a new phone number and was pulled off our phone plan without our consent?
DH asked SS if he got a new phone or number. SS and BM both told him no on Thursday. DH has no idea how this can happen. As far as I am concerned it is stealing. We paid for the phone. We paid for the phone plan. We are still paying for the phone line. To top it off BM encouraged SS to lie to his father.
So anyway, BM comes storming into Pizza Hut- the only resturant in town - and throws SS's old SIM card at DH and starts screaming at him and saying that I am the reason that they can't coparent. Riiiggghhhttt.... Before me he didn't have any visitation and BM had him totally locked down. He gave her $ whenever she asked and, honestly, I think once she got tired of living in podunk she had DH on the hook becasue she could have played the "our family needs to be together" card and she thought she could go right back. She has hated me since day one and I have been nothing but nice to her and her son. That is all over now. She went on and on... I can't even remember everything she said but she kept repeating that they have to Co-parent.
So DH tells her- you realize that Co-parenting involves communication. So when my son lies to me and you lie to me about his phone number you aren't co-parenting. When you lie about doctors- you aren't co-parenting. When you refuse to respond to any of my texts or emails for months on end so that I have to call the police to have a wellness check done- you aren't coparenting!
She said well, she is ready to do that now. Then she left. There were people from town in the resturant and I think she got embarressed.
DH sends her a stream of texts after he drops off SS asking for things like he to stop blocking him at school, stop blocking him with medical. Provide names of doctors, and on and on- everything we had been fighting since the begining. OF COURSE no response.
So now... DH is trying to figure out how she was able to take a cell phone off of our plan and transfer it. He is considering filing a police report. (I told him that he needs to!) And that was probably the last he will see of SS until spring break, if she even sends him. The rest of this week should be interesting.