I have reached out to SS16 2X now asking what he would like for Christmas- not only from DH and I but his Aunts/Uncles and Grandparents. No response.
DH actually talked to him for about 3 minutes last week.He just shrugged when DH asked him.
I'm over it. DH can deal with presents. I will tell my family if they want to get him anything just get him a $25 visa gift card or something since he doesn't want to acknowledge us.
He doesn't know that my mom has cancer... not that he would care, but my mom has always done everything to make him feel equal to my bio's. If he just wants to keep shitting on us, fine. He is going to be left with very little while the rest of the kids load up.
It is pretty freeing to just say "Oh well!" and let DH deal with it. I already have about 90% of the gifts for SS20 and my bios taken care of! Yay Black Friday online shopping! LOL
7 Days until court! I can't wait for this hearing to finally be over and just done with it all. I honestly think that if BM does get in trouble he won't get on the plane- he will see it as taking a stand and protecting his mommy dearest. I think that if she doesn't he REALLY won't get on the plane. So... that's where I am at.
Honestly- I hope he doesn't come. It would be so much easier to not deal with him rather than put on a fake smile and pretend that we are happy he is with us. I just don't want to see my sweet husband hurt again.