I’ve never hated my BF more
I’m having my son this Friday. That’s less than 2 days away. My BFs aunt agreed at least a month ago to watch both of the girls this weekend while I’m in the hospital so my BF could also be there for me and our son. Well today she decided to tell us that she won’t be keeping the girls all weekend because she can’t handle our DD1 for more than one night and she will also be going fishing on Sunday with my BFs mom. Wow ok then. Not only are you telling me this 2 days before I’m about to have this baby but you’re also trying to shame me for wanting my SO there the whole time. I’m supposed to basically suck it up because we have 2 other children to think about and his aunts husband never stayed the whole time in the hospital with her. I should mention I’m having a c section and with my last one I could barely get out of bed even with help and now I have to do it with my baby actually in the room with me. Anyways they tell me this so of course I want to find a solution so I won’t be alone most of the time at the hospital. I ask my mom if she can watch the girls for us the days his aunt can’t. My mom of course tells me yes. My BF tells his aunt a couple hours later that my mom can keep them while she can’t. She immediately tells My BF well I’ll keep SD4 then until Sunday. When he tells me I ask him why because SD has stayed with my mom multiple times over night. He tells me his aunt feels uncomfortable with her being there because basically they think she gets treated badly or like a “stepchild”. My mom and my entire family actually embraced this little girl and welcomed her into our family with open arms. They just don’t spoil her the way SOs family does. My mom was hurt when I told her they didn’t want her over there and honestly it’s the last straw for me. They will use my family anytime it’s convenient for them but then turn around and tell us we don’t treat her good enough. It’s not fair to my family to constantly be disrespected by them claiming that they treat SD any different than they do all the other kids when they do so much for us and treat her just like a member of the family. They don’t coddle or baby anyone’s kids and honestly I appreciate being raised the way I was. I never disrespected or felt entitled to anything. I grew up knowing I was loved but had expectations and rules but that’s not good enough for his little princess. I’m done with seeing my family members get used and hurt by SO and his family. I hate to even think this but I have decided that I will no longer be including SD or SO in anything involving my family. They want SD to feel like a stepchild well now she actually will.