Is it wrong to want ONE thing with DH that doesn't involve SS?- PT 2
Okay...so I just found out from my cousin-in-law that my DH basically invited himself/us and his sister's family to the cabin for the fourth of July..... my cousin had nothing to do with it.
I sent Cousin-in-law a message to let him know I bought some games to bring, and he responded "great! Let me know how many people are coming up as soon as possible because I know he (dh) invited his sisters family"
I asked "what do you mean dh invited...he made it sound like it was your idea"
cousin: "no...I"m not sure how it happened but before I knew it not only were you guys coming up with ss this time...he invited his sister too and said you guys could sleep in your camper and they could have your room".
Cousin said he didn't care, he said he has his/his wife room so it's our problem where everyone else is going to sleep.
It is a three bedroom ONE bathroom cabin. Meaning only two rooms available- one double bed and two twin beds. SIL has up to 5 kids at any given point due to both her and her husband having no bio kids but kids from previous marriages.
The cabin belongs to my cousin and her husband. It has been in their family for years. My cousin is extremely territorial about it because it used to belong to her father's parents. Everything in this cabin is an antique. God forbid an old fork/spoon bends in half...she will damn you to the pits of hell. The pipes are old, you can't flush tp down the toilet... It is fun, dont' get me wrong, but there are unspoken rules. Dh and I are used to them due to the number of years we have gone so we hardly think about it when we are up there.
Add on a completely different family and 6 kids between the ages of 10-17 and....yeah...I don't see this going well at all. There is no way 12 people can comfortably sit in that cabin.
Not to mention the cabin is between two hills on a gravel driveway...our camper is about 20 ft long...I have NO idea where the heck we are going to set it up at in the yard....god forbid we mess up the grass...then there goes the lawn games because the camper will be on the only slightly level area of the yard...and if it rains...we are not getting that camper out of there without messing something up.. oh and hope dh buys fuses so we can run the camper off the battery because there is no way we can hook up to the cabin. Usually when we go camping we have power and water hook ups.
I either need to stop this stupid "event" from happening...or apologize to my cousin in advance and pray they will still speak to me after this holiday is over...
I am FURIOUS at dh trying to take advantage of my family just because HE dropped the ball and has no money to go camping even if we HAD found a campsite.
Poor widdow ss can't have a bowing week wiff daaadeeeeee fur daaaadeeeees howiday time.....AAAAARRRGHHHHH.