College Spring Break and Covid19
So SD19 is starting her spring break. Her college mandates that anyone who leave cannot come back for 4 weeks. So she's spending the next two weeks going to a few vacation spots with friends, the second week of which she is supposed to be doing courses online too. The latter two weeks, BM is bringing her home to our area, where SD19 can still do her courses. And of course DH is pushing for her to spend one of the weeks at our home.
I told him that after her behavior at Xmas, I will not be quarantined at home with her 24/7. Our companies are likely shutting down soon, and I have to work from home and also keep my bios at home with their schools closing. He told me to "get over it"...um, no.
Further, I have no idea if this girl is going to be careful on Spring Break, but given her track record, probably not. There is no way I want her at home after she's been... *socializing*... ahem... with all the other college students down in party central, FL. If I were her mother, I'd tell her to stay on campus, or come home right away and skip her spring break. But I don't have that option.
Ideas? I can certainly be the bigger a**hole and put my foot down... say that she needs to stay at BMs, and that if we meet her out no hugging/kissing our bios. They are little but DS4 is old enough to get it, and I can keep my younger one with me.
I have dreams of her getting quarantined in another state. And I can only say that here... where I won't get the "evil stepmother" label.