SS weird behavior...biomom brainwashing him?
everytime i see ss right after he has been w/his mom, he is quite the whole time he is in my car on our way home. it's like biomom tells him something just before he sees us. what is with that attitude? i can't stand it, then i ask him is there something bothering you? he says no. it's like he thinks about what his mother had just said to him and ignore me and my daughter. what could she be telling him? not to speak to us? i can't ask ss cause he'll just go back to his mother and tell her what i asked him, then she'll get all upset that i'm harrasing this kid. i know his mother hates me but does she have to brainwash her own child too against me? how would you guys handle this situation? sometimes i just don't want to pick him up from school or having anything to do w/this kid and ignore him too.
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Give him transition time.
He is too old to believe everything his mother says. If you just give him a little time and not get frustrated with him, he will probably come around. He will make up his own mind based on what he sees, not what he hears from her. Besides, he is getting close to puberty, and they all get moody around that age anyway.
same deal
First off I can't believe you get "to pick up ss" on your own. I have never been allowed to pick up ss or take him back to mom's on my own. Even if Dad is working or busing he will drop everything to pick up or drop off. (he wille vn go as far as to leave work and get him while I meet them at home)
SS does the same thing to me. When ss walks into the house he will walk right by me and go straight to Dad. This goes on for about 2 days. His main priority is Dad not me. SS is brainwashed too. I have heard him (and he 5 at the time) tell me, "you're not my real Mom, I was pregnant and "it won't be my real brother or sister" or even tell my Mom, "you're not my real grandma" He has even went as far as to tell my brother's kids, "when I am at my real grandma's house." Yes their is brainwashing going on and how sad. Any BM should be grateful that their child has a loving person to help raise a child. BUT they (BM of the world) look at us as threats.