Am I Wrong?
So this recently happened. My 22yo SD text my DH and told him she had a couple packages being sent to our house. They were a couple fire pits that she wants to sell. I asked why is she sending them to our house instead of her mom's house? He said why do you care? I told him that I don't want her thinking that we are going to be a storage unit for her and that she's going to pack our room in our home with a bunch of her stuff like she did at his mom's house. He siad he told her that she needs to sell it or send it back. I don't believe him when he says that. My thing is why are we having to store her stuff here? He got mad and said that I was being selfish and that he wishes I had kids so that he could rag on my kids. I told him if I had kids, they would be taught to help out at home and wouldn't be raised to be disrespectful brats. He says I don't want to help her out and I said why should I help her when she doesn't lift a finger to help when she's here? I told him that whenever he tells SD to ask me if she can do something, all she does is ask why and he doesn't make her ask me. To me, this is disrespectful to me as the other owner in this house and as his wife.
SD stayed most of the summer with us and didn't do anything to help out. Then on the day SD went back to her mom's house, SD made about ten trips to her car with stuff she had in the room and a pile of cardboard boxes she had broke down. I couldn't believe it. SD wanted a key to our house and I told him that she was not getting a key to our house and she kept asking why and he told her because I said. SD mumbled under her breath down the hall I don't know why I can't have a key to the house. Everytime DH tells SD no or asks her something, she asks why? SD tells DH you wouldn't be asking if you didn't have a reason so why? It's ridiculous.
My question is, was I wrong to put my foot down or try to put my foot down, that we are not going to be a "storage unit" for his SD's stuff? She already has boxes of stuff in our garage that she didn't take to her mom's house and is not taking with her.