DD is really having a rough go
The last update I gave was bm adopted the babies and dd started counseling. DD is really struggling and not coping well. She is having nightmares about losing things and not finding them. Her Dr gave her some anti depressants to help but I am only seeing a slight improvement.
I left dh. When the babies were maybe 6 weeks old I came home with dd to find ss and the babies in our home with dh. They were hanging out in the living room and it was the first time dd had seem them since the hospital. She sobbed like I have never seen and she didn't want to put them down and was almost hysterical when dh took ss and the twins home. She didn't leave her room for 3 days and she just stayed in bed. I was really really worried about her. I realized then that this couldn't happen again so I got her up and we left. Dh is constantly putting pictures of his "grandbabies" all over facebook. It's like he is a proud papa wanting to show the world his grandkids when they are bm's children now.
So that is where we are right now. DD is getting her GED and I am spending a lot of money on therapy for her and me. I am so livid that bm has my daughters babies and that they are all over there enjoying themselves when my dd is struggling so bad. The worst part is that dd changed her mind and wants them. I was afraid this would happen. She is constantly on social media finding pictures of them and crying over not having them. Her dr has talked to her about not doing that but she isn't listening yet.