Horrible fighting with dh
DD is 18 and in high school. She is pregnant with twins from ss. Yeah.....i know. Anyway her and I have been searching for an adoptive family for them and dh is insisting that ss be a part of this and he have a say where the twins go. DD and I want to handle this ourselves and have found a couple we like. They are older and never able to have kids. I think they are perfect but dh is saying he and ss want to find a young couple to raise them (30's compared to the couple dd and I found 40's. So we have been having knock down drag out fights and last night dh said if ss isn't included then he won't sign the adoption papers and DH will SEEK custody on ss's behalf!! I think dh is bluffing but I don't understand why he is doing this!!