Met with a second attorney
So On Monday DD and I met with a second attorney who came recommended. It wasn't good news. DD could be in a world of trouble. So without my knowledge she went to bm's yesterday and talked with her. She decided to have the babies and put them up for adoption. Bm reassured her she has zero desire to ruin her life. She will never speak of this again once the twins are born. She just wants dd to stay away from SS and the babies to have life. Bm gave her the names of some adoption agencies and some websites to help her.
I am just.......blown the hell away. I asked dd if she understands what this means, what this will do to her body and her mind. It will ruin her senior year and devastate her! I don't think she has thought through what it will be like to give away one baby much less two!!
Dh and I are barely talking right now. He wants dd out of the house. He said an adoption agency will pay for an apartment and help her. That she is 18 and a criminal. Whatever. She is 18 but she is still in high school and YOUR crazy ex is forcing her to have children she doesn't want. Our world is an upside down mess right now.
I meet with the 3rd attorney tonight but dd doesn't want to go.