DD almost had the twins
I've been here reading i just don't post. I am not sure what advice I could offer when my life is so upside down. But I get a ton of laughs and advice from you guys. Thanks so much.
My dd was having some contractions and so she was put on bedrest. She is 32 weeks now. The dr wants to hold off for another 4 weeks and then they won't stop labor.
Dh and I are okay. He isn't happy with dd still and dd is (or was since she can't now) forced to leave when ss comes for visitation. We compromised that ss wouldn't spend the night and would come over on Saturdays to spend time with dh. I refuse to do anything while he is here. I only speak with dh. I refuse to waste my time speaking to ss.
As of now there is no family for the twins. SS and bm won't agree on the families dd picks. We have picked 3 and they reject them. I told dh he can make the decision with ss and leave bm out of it but bm won't stay out of it. Right now we are in a holding pattern because ss and bm picked a family from their church and dd didn't like them. It is such a mess right now.
So that is my update. Any advice on what to do? Anyway we can get around bm and ss?