I warned SO it would happen and with the recent engagement we were informed of we’ve now had a break down between our “co-parenting”. The thing is SO is CLUELESS so we got into it last night. BM made it clear she doesn’t believe she has to consult with him when it comes to the kids and even popped off incorrectly about the order which clearly says she does have to and that they have joint custody 100%.

Thing is BM’s already making it clear she intends to have new daddy fill in and replace SO. She already reduced his contact with the kids and has apparently moved without telling him. The contact reduction she can legally do but shows that it was never done for the good of the kids in the first place. It was all because she needed a babysitter. Now new daddy can do it so why pay for the gas to come get the kids on Sunday. She also confirmed they are living with fiancées parents who again do NOT have space for all of them. She’s moved them out of her father’s home which had 4 bedrooms so each kid had a room to fiancées parents which has a den and couches the kids are sleeping on while she puts everything into storage.

She’s going off about how she doesn’t have to tell him anything. He isn’t upset about the move but she violating the order and not involving him in these MAJOR factors of the kids’ lives. Switching schools after 4 years is a big deal and I guess she didn’t intend him to be a part of the registration process at all?

Like I said SO and I got into it because even though all this violates the order is no big deal. SO is still delusional and thinks a court would actally care what he says about them moving and changing schools. I told him in this case no since it’s not even a few miles and doesn’t interfere with visitation. Then I pointed out if he’s not careful she could move across state. He wanted to say she can’t and that he’d get the kids…. Nope not how it works. Court doesn’t care about him when he only has them on the weekends.