Well this weekend started off pretty good until SD16 told DH she was not going to her BM's as planned for the weekend.

Now we had made plans for the whole weekend already so my stomach went into knotts when DH told me this. But thank god our plans did not change Friday. We went to a play Friday night as planned. (Got tickets for DH as a Xmas gift). Friday night SD16 stayed with her grandmother (didn't want to stay alone) Sat she decided I am going to go to BM since she heard DH and i were going out for dinner with friends. Well i dropped her off around 12 at BM, DH was working, and I went home to enjoy the alone time (my son at his fathers) so while doing some much needed relaxing SD16 called me at about 3 crying that she is sick of BM and just can not do this. So I ask her do you want me to pick you up she says yes. I go get her. DH comes home around 4 i tell him what had happen. SD comes out says she spoke to BM and wants to go back. DH then takes her back. Now i am thinking and tell them both this is not a good idea at all. BM and her just are not getting along at all and she should just stay with us because i can already see this is not going to be good. But DH does not want to listen and takes her.

We go for drinks at our friends around 5...and dinner reservations are at 6:30...We start taking off at around 6:10 we get there, about 20 min away mind you, we sit down a little after 6:30. Around 7:10 were laughing, having some more drinks and DH phone rings....My stomach at this point starts turning.....SD16 is crying once again needs to be picked up ASAP she can not anymore deal with this and is done going to BM and yelling on the phone that we can all hear her...DH gets up excuses his self and goes outside to talk to her...Now i am sitting there like :jawdrop: and pissed because i knew this was going to happen and warned then both of this....DH comes back and says after dinner we need to go pick her up....OK after dinner whatever

We eat dinner take our time thank god but the evening is pretty much a bust because SD is waiting so DH's mind is with her i can tell....We leave, ate pretty quick and friends tell us after you drop her off come by...DH says sounds good we will need it...We go pick up SD who is bullshit we took so long and we dont care about her and why her life is so shity because BM wanted to mess around on her dad and blah blah blah...DH is trying to calm her down, its not working we get home and i decide I will wait in the car till he gets her all set...She says to me...."why where are you going"...DH chimes in we left our plans to come get you we are going back to them...She starts crying again blah blah blah...Long story a little shorter....We stayed home...I went to bed pissed...and Sunday we did it all over again...SD went to BM called crying at 10 at night blah blah blah.... WTF is wrong with this picture...Now SD says she is not going there anymore!!!! YAHHHHH WE DID THIS ALREADY!!!!! Told DH I GIVE UP, DONT WANT TO KNOW ANYMORE... and next time i am going out without you...Kick myself for not going back to friends house....How ridiculous..all weekend was back and forth to BM's...Now she says she is not going anymore...i told DH I will not be bringing her to BM or picking her up if she decides to once again go...You want to go when you know what the turn out is then DEAL WITH WHAT HAPPENS!!!! I mean seriously i don't know what to do anymore!!!! and DH is all upset and sick over all this shit and has no idea what to do....I"LL TELL YOU>>>DONT LET HER GO TO BM's ANYMORE!!!!! Is it not that obvious????? WTF!!!!!