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SO ate his words about Nasty having changed...

Anywho78's picture

It took less than a week for her to remind him of who he was actually dealing with. See blog http://www.steptalk.org/node/73520 for why he thought she changed.

During the first week of the Skids time with her, she…
-Told SO that the Skids were costing her too much money
-Asked SO to return CS to her so that she could afford to have them with her
-Lost SS’s bathing suit & didn’t bother to replace it

During the second week of the Skids time with her she…
-Told SO that the Skids were costing her too much money
-Told SO that the Skids were hampering her & XSD16’s time together
-Asked SO to return CS to her so that she could afford to have them with her
-Laughingly told SO about how SS9 (PDD-NOS) has been staying up til 4:30am watching cartoons (because it’s vacation, don’tcha know)
-Complained to SO about how much living in FL cost
-When her car broke down & she told SO that it was HIS job to help her pay for it because (yup, you guessed it) she is the mother of his children, he TAKES her money(CS)& because he is a man (luckily, her new BF stepped up & took SO's spot as a man & paid for the car repair)

After he picked them up from Nasty yesterday, both SS9 & SD8 complained endlessly about being tired (staying up til 4:30am every morning watching TV will do that!)…the stories that the Skids told were interesting to say the least.

According to SD8:
-SD, XSD16 & Nasty did LOADS of fun things together while SS was off on his own watching TV, playing legos or on his DS.
-SD was showering & Nasty climbed in with her saying that she NEEDED to wash SD’s hair…so there’s Nasty & SD8 showering together…then XSD16 climbs in there too! So SD8 said that she was being pushed into the wall by “butts & boobs” & that she didn’t want to tell her mom no because she didn’t want to make her mad.
-SD also said that every single night, she asked Nasty to turn the TV off but that Nasty said “No, you don’t have to sleep SD, you’re on VACATION!”
-All of SD’s hair things that we sent with her are GONE. SD asked Nasty to get her new headbands & Nasty told her that she had already spent too much on their visit & that she didn’t have the money but that her “other mom” (ME) would get some for her.

According to SS9:
-He was left on his own for the majority of his visit because the girls were doing “girl stuff”
-Nasty asked him if she could wash him during his shower...he said NO & locked the bathroom door (he's NINE!)

SO had to wash ALL of the Skids laundry yesterday because Nasty sent back everything we packed for their visit DIRTY &/or wet.

The Skids have complained endlessly about the possible lines at the Magic Kingdom (thanks Nasty & XSD!!!)...SO is there with them now at the Magic Kingdom...apparently they are enjoying themselves.

SO & the Skids drive back tomorrow so they will arrive home late tomorrow evening.

Hopefully, SO remembers all of this crap before he agrees to drive all the way to FL AGAIN next year.

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omgsaveme's picture

Im sorry, that woman is HORRIBLE and thank GOD that you guys have full custody. What a disgusting *****. I just read your last blog where Nasty said about her own child.....yes hes a wierdo ?????? How have you resisted choking the life out of this woman, please give me some of your strength and to tell her kid, no im not buying you any cause she spent too much money ???? Im floored, Im sick after reading how gross she is. You are a saint.

Anywho78's picture

Oh omgsaveme, thank you but you give me far too much credit. I have met the woman ONE time for a whopping (maybe?) 2 minutes...she gave me the judgmental up/down bitch stare & that was about it. I *spoke* to her on Skype ONE time last week (see blog http://www.steptalk.org/node/73554) but other than that, I have had ZERO contact with her.

I think me not having contact with her is for the better...I would not be able to keep my cool for very long & she would find herself in a world of shit being called on all of the effed up crap that I've had to deal with because of her (& yes, SO's stupidity).

I will end up buying SD headbands, because the child needs them (her hair gets into her eyes) & I will end up buying SS a new pair of swimming trunks, because the child needs them.

Stepcop's picture

Shower?!?!? Seriously?!?!? I can't imagine. I think that might be a cps report. I get icky feelings just thinking about it. I am so glad you guys ave custody, just wish she didn't have that opportunity to. Be so....yuck!!

Anywho78's picture

Right??!!?? My question though is...what 16 year old on the planet wants to take communal showers with their mom & little sister in an apartment bathroom? Both Nasty & XSD16 are gross weird nut cases!