Dealing with a BM and/or skid with a disability/disorder.
I know a lot of us deal with bi-polar BMs, and BMs who have other disorders, which may or may not be diagnosed.
A lot of these disorders are hereditary. I.e. my mom has Asperger's Syndrome and so do I.
How do you deal with your skids and BMs that have disabilities/disorders? Do you think a lot of their actions are related to their disability/disorder? Do you think that, despite their disabilities/disorders, they still know what they're doing to us and our partners and that what they're doing is wrong? Do you think that they hide behind their disability/disorder as an excuse?
There are some skids who are blogged about here whom I think could really use some professional help but their parents don't bother to get them any. I really think these "parents" are doing their kids a great disservice because these kids truly need help in dealing with their disbilities/disorders.
As for the BMs, if they know they have BPD or any other disability/disorder, they should be seeking professional help for that. There are government services out there that can help them if they cannot afford to seek treatment on their own.