i am furious with my FSD12 and FSS10 who miss life with just daddy and want more alone time without me and my kids. They were alone with daddy for 5 years, and we are together almost 3. I thought they would come around but it is getting worse. The do not want to play with my kids, they want to either be alone or sit with daddy. The have expressed wanting cuddle time constantly and BM had talked to DH about different ways they can be alone.

I get so mad at my stepson as he doesn't listen and only hears what he wants to. Typical 14 year old right? But I have to stress to him over and over what I mean. How do you control your tone? I don't want my 15month old to hear that and be scared of his mommy cuz she yells at his brother, and dad is getting stressed cuz we cant get a long.

She is 12...but she is a 12 year old with a 36C bra size and hangs all over daddy. I feel like she is too old for that and it makes me feel awkward.

Getting married in two weeks. Decided 2 weeks ago to try and bury the hatchets with BM...everything went well. We agreed to be just 2 moms and not enemies. She was texting me, came over for coffee when she picked up the kids and life was good. Yesterday, FDH gets a letter forwarded to him by his lawyer from hers :jawdrop:

I just responded to a blog and recommended the poster let go of that they cannot control. As I was about to hit save, I was handed a letter to the editor from a coworker and it just said this:

John Wesley said,
"Do all the good you can,
By all the means you can,
In all the ways you can,
In all the places you can,
At all the times you can,
To all the people you can,
As long as ever you can.”

This stupid bitch is really starting to wear on my nerves and my patience! She grounded my SS8 because he went home with us from football last night when she didnt show up. She gets to our house and is calling his cell over and over again telling him to come outside at 830pm its dark here then. My husband said "no mom is an adult she can come up and get you" she calls back 5 mins later and says to my SS8 "you have 2 mins to come outside or I am going to leave you" After my husband finally took him out to her she flicks a LIT cigarette in his face because he called her lazy.

So, this may sound very weird but here it goes. Last year we got married and then soon after his ex was arguing with us that it was impossible because they wern't divorced. Of course in order to get a marriage license, we had to have the divorce certificate and we had it. Come to find out the government made a mistake and sent a 'false' divorce certificate so it annulled our marriage!!!

at least for a while. My dad is coming to pick me up later today and I'm going to stay with my parents for a while. I really really don't want to get a divorce, I really hope he straightens out.

Am I crazy to think this way?

DH was awarded custody of his two teenage kids last Sept (2009).

Mom is disabled, but never really worked much before than either. DH always paid his child support weekly when she had custody ($150/week). She constantly harrassed both of us for more money, that his kids weren't his priority, that he needed to pay more for every thing under the sun (extras - school pics, clothes, medical bills despite what the court order said). And he did pay a lot of extras.

Well after yet another argument with DH about SD and SGKS last night, I had enough and contacted an attorney today. I have to protect my sanity and my interests.