Nope, not the skids who uttered that phrase to me, but my DH.
I'm still so stunned by his revelation, I can barely breathe. I've cried so much I don't know how I have any tears left inside.

I will make an assumption. Most of us were raised not to take crap from anyone. Most of us were also raised to respect our parents.

However, most of us would not take the crap that many of our skids take from the idiot parent in the blended family opposition.

So, I get home from work yesterday and walk into the downstairs bathroom and find a cigarette butt floating in the bowl and ashes on the floor next to the toilet.

I take my DF's children to school every morning. SS7 always says goodbye and SD11 says it occasionally and it's usually extremely low and half a grunt. This morning I drop them off as usual and of course, SS7 says Bye loud and clear and SD11 says absolutely nothing.

So, I am sitting here frustrated at 12:04 a.m. because of the behavior of my step kids, especially the oldest one who is 17. My husband frustrates me more because he wants me to be the bad guy. I have to do all the correcting while he kisses up to his children and when I refuse, because it is something he should do, he gets upset.

So BM is coming home tomorrow for the first time since she moved across the country in May. SD9 is anxious of course, who wouldn't be after not seeing their mother for 7 months? However, she has been picking fights with me for the last week which she never ever does. (now with her father that's a different story) She has to be right about EVERYTHING and will argue with me when she knows she's wrong.

I am step mother dealing with an evil BM who is already straining my marriage of a whole 7 months. I don't know what to do but I am most definitely trying not to let it make my destroy my own life or get myself in trouble. So I went searching and this is what I found.

Mmmm, BM has not cashed last two child support checks. SO not divorced yet but attorney told him to send her checks that say "child support" in the memo line. She wants him to deposit money into the joint account. So, now she is not cashing the child support checks. He's made copies of them but why?
F.

I was just wondering if anyone has heard from lastchance... I'm really worried about her and hope she's ok.

BM just informed FH that she doesn't plan on going to the visitation enforcement hearing tommorow. She thinks that she doesn't have to be there. LMFAO

Please, please, please go to jail!