I have spent sometime reading on here over the past while before I wrote something and I must say, THANK GOODNESS I am not the only one!!! My fiance's ex common law is just like the rest of these other BM's one here. It seems to me there must be a hand book on being A self-centered money- hungry EX. If that is the case I bet the author is mighty wealthy from the amount revenue brought in from its sales. Here I was spending so much time and energy explain my disgust to my parter regarding the going on's of his EX.

First Time Blogger, Long Time Step-Mom. LOL! I'm embarrassed to say, I don't know what "DH" stands for. I used it here as Dad/Husband???

So, (I'm not hip to abbreviations or anything)Little background:
I am a 28 yr old SM to a 5 yr old(Lil'Monster - no meaning intended), whom I have been apart of for 3 years now, and a mother to an 18 month daughter(Monkey), oh an I am 22 weeks pregnant w/my son.

GG calls me to report that Brainiac (SS stb 15) is hanging out in front of a local bar with the foster kid that the Behemoth is fostering/adopted.

No surprise there! Brainiac is the oldest and all three are failing school (but get miraculously passed up to the next grade somehow, although 4 years behind for their grade academically)

I say miraculously b/c the Behemoth, goes storming in and basically DEMANDS that the school officials (her contemporaries and school buddies) pass the skids up! Even at parent teacher meetings, the Behemoth has made it very clear that she:

Please ignore typing errors: on my phone in the car drivin to NC. SO is driving.

why is it that little kids who go to school and can share there, share at there BM's house, and share at daycare cant seem to grasp the concept of sharing at our house? SS6 cant seem to understand that he has to share his toys or coloring books with his little brother (my bio son that is 1.5). DH and I both have said "when you are playing with your brother you have to share.

Sorry for the long post, I'm sure you guys and girls have heard it all before but I have to get this off my chest before I lose it.

First let me say I don't have any kids of my own, I've never wanted any, I'm completely non-maternal and I don't actually like children. My ex-husband understood that and didn't want kids either. In that respect I suppose we were a good match. Unfortunately, after 5 years of marriage, it didn't work out. These things happen and we're still friends.

I'm in my early thirties and I have one child who is 12 and very mannerable. My problem is my boyfriend I love him so much but his head is all ifffed up because he has three children by a woman he was with for 12 years out of his life. His BM is a hot head and only about two lbs soaking wet. She's always texting him and addressing him the wrong way like she's down with the mob and most of the time I don't like the tone of it ~she's rude~. His BM wants him to do everything and he's a great father because he tries. She has no life no education no class and nowhere to live.

Referring to my previous blog. My dh seems to treat me as less important when his daughter is around. He was arguing with me one day about the sd helping out our business... He said, very loudly (enough for her to hear), that the reason I don't want her helping at the store is because im jealouse of him spending time with her. Then not long after that problems started getting worse.

So dh picks up ss to tomorrow (sat) and he'll stay a week. Sun, the bios & I go visit my mom for 3 days. Now when I usually go out of town I clean my house so I can return to a clean house. Nothing worse than coming home having to unpack AND clean. This time, however, ss13 will be alone in our house for 3 days while dh works all day. (dh was supposed to have off while i was gone but had to give up he days.) In the past, ss has stayed alone in our home twice. Once for a day and I returned to a normal house. Another time he stayed with bil who is only a year older than ss.