So, I blogged a couple of days ago about how my MIL freaked out at the airport and flipped out on DH calling him an A**hole in front of the kids and how MIL really doesn't have anything to do with SD or our BS and how she favors DD5.

VD (SD 12 1/2) cancelled yet again the third counseling meeting in a row that she BEGGED GG (biodad) to come to.

The counselor called GG and told him that VD had cancelled because she was distressed over the thought of discussing her terrible grades in 6th grade (mostly Fs and one D)

She will NOT tolerate anyone telling her to "straighten up and fly right" even though it would have been a paper tiger talk on the part of GG. He seldom if ever follows through as he's one of the biggest guilty daddies on the planet.

At this point, I am CONVINCED that the ONLY thought that runs the SD10s head is "duuuhhhhh I can play stupid and I will get out of doing my chores and no longer be in trouble for not doing them last week and I LIKE being in trouble" Serisouly? This child can take the simplest task and make it into an all out production. DH told her to get dressed and it took her 30 minuets to put on a pair of shorts and a T-shirt.

I hate liars. Does anyone know anything about IEP? I am on a fact find mission for BF. I try to not get involved but i do like to give BF the facts and hope he will do the right thing with them. We have always had an issue with BM lying (about everything) but lately it's at an all time high and about stuff that she should not be lying about. Which has made BF and I question her more and look into the truth more. She called last night and said something to BF along the line of "Don't you trust me." "Do you think that I am lying" to which BF said nothing.

Hello everyone! I am new at this and like many, choosing to give it a shot. I am a young woman who is dating a guy who is pratcically doubled my age and although I love him and have come to appreciating and enjoying his companionship, I've realized the uh-ohs in accepting him PLUS his package. He has custody of his two kids who are teens and closer to my age than me to my guy. Although they don't seem to have an issue with that-I'm finding it difficult in other areas.

so my stepsons BM, has a new 'friend', she doesn't want us to know because if he eventually moves in this will directly affect her support. My fiance asked his son one day at dinner if this new 'friend' in Mom's life was her bf, all we got was he is Mom's friend. My fiance only asks this question in concern for his son's well being, BM's last boyfriend beat her up and caused some serious pscychological damage to my SS as he saw the end result. The next day we get a text message blasting us for asking about her life and that we have no right to know anything about her. Fine.

DH and I have been married a little over a month now. We each have life insurance policies provided for us through our employers. I have had my younger brother listed as beneficiary up until now. DH suggested I change it to him now that we are married. I was just thinking this morning...if I change my policy, will he change his policy to list me as his beneficiary? Or will he keep it as SD? I'm willing to bet he keeps it as his SD. Is this fair? What is everyone's thoughts? I don't know why I have never thought to ask him that question when the subject came up in the past.

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Hello All!
I am new to the venting out loud thing but I need advise!!!!!

one tuesday day SS9 started a huge fight between DH and BM. DH said to BM on the phone "fine come pick him up" and DH left for work. SS was standing at the front door waiting to be picked up. it took her an hour to come get him. while he was standing at the door he was singing!!!! I said to him " what just happened is nothing to be singing about" Ss said "i know". so finally BM picked him up ss said bye to me and i told him to shut the door, while shutting the door I hear BM yelling "did you get all your clothes" .

I have the only 2 stepsons that the police come to your house and pickup at 7am. Over minor infractions and my wife hustles to get them out( well I certainly was'nt going to get involved). The oldest son had a warrant for assault of his stepfather (yes,me) He stabbed me with a fork to the head. Yes,I have recovered
and I am planning revenge or escape for my wife and lovely CHRISTIAN children.I have caught them selling drugs on a number of occassions and turned them in to the police.I love my wife and I think she loves me but I think she loves them more than me and herself.