I've been rethinking my relationship with my fiance lately, but I'm just really confused. He is so kind and intelligent and I enjoy being around him. The problem is his obsession with his 6 year old daughter. This morning, we were making love as six (count 'em SIX) photos of his daughter stared straight back at me. He has eight photos of her in his bedroom alone.

Hi there, thanks for the comments. Now, I don't want to sound too negative about Z here. Essentially, Z's a good kid -deep down. I was a bit flustered when i wrote my intro. Hes been away because he didnt come home one night last week, and then came home drunk the next, then called his mom a 'stuck up bitch' because she wouldnt let him instantly go out and hang with his friends the next day,,so we offered him a chance to catch up with his grandmother in chch. Hes comnig back on wednesday. I've....i'm gonna buy a pair of earplugs and pray that everything goes smooth.

Let me just start from the beginning. My husband and I were friends for two years and dated seriously for a year before we got married. During this time he live five hours (out of state) away from his son and the biological mom. He would see his son for about two weeks in the summer, one week at Christmas time, and then about one weekend a month. My hubby and I didn't live together until we were married so during these visitations I was only around during the day and not too often since I worked full time.

Hi Im new here. Have seen allot of interesting post. Here is my
problem. My husband is awesome would take on king kong when it comes to me. All except his grown daughter. She's 25 and married. He has been divorced for 5 years from her mother. His daughter is
very immature. She's a constant little drama queen. Everytime her
mother does anything that she doesnt like shes calling her dad to let him know. Everytime Im around her she brings her mother up.

I thought this was suppose to be the best time of my life, but it's turning out to be my worst! Two step-daughters that hate my guts! Posting pictures of the newly divorced "Mummy", as they call her, on their facebook pages. By the way, none of me or their "Daddy", as they call him.

My in-laws live 5 minutes away. We have them over for dinner every few weeks. Or should I say DH invites them to dinner...

I've asked him a million times to check with me first before inviting them. It's not a cooking thing- he does most of the cooking. But it's a time and space thing... When they come, he wants to make a mad dash to clean the house, and then they stay forever. We have dinner, then they want to linger over coffee during desert.

I'm always nagging at DH that even though BM is psycho, he should at least try to treat her with human decency... I have always intervened for him in the past, and have spent the last 11 years being the go between for the two of them, as I knew it was best for the skids. AS their custodial SM, it just made things easier on me if I knew what was going on...

So the talk I had with SD last visit (detailed in last blog), seems to have backfired. DH went to pick her up & no one was home. DH found out from SIL that BM called her & spoke about SD not wanting to come here anymore, this is strange to me as SIL & BM have no relationship. BM went on to say that SD doesn't like school (grade 1)is getting in trouble at school and is not sleeping well....SIL got the impression that BM was trying to blame the visits with her father as the reason.

Hi,

I am new to this site and thought I would see how this works.. I have never written in a blog before and I have never been involved in an online community like this before.. I am hopping that there are more people like me out there and maybe I can find some type of advice that will help me in my situation, or give me a answer.. Here goes.