I'm already done with this week...

On Sunday my sweet Lilly cat who I have had for 15 years and is 17 years old started acting funny. Lethargic, kind of out of it, etc. So yesterday morning she ate some food but threw it all back up and then some right before I leave for work. Thankfully it was on the mat right outside of her litter box. Not thankfully was that I still managed to drip it all over the carpet when I was carrying it outside to rinse off. Last night noticed she hadn't ate or drank much and she was still sleeping a lot and just out of it.

So I settle into bed with DH. Stressed and scared for Lilly. Just doze off and OSD calls DH at around 11.

What I got from the conversation of what I could hear is that BM is kicking her out when she moves in with her BF this weekend and that OSD and her kids have no place to go. That maybe she found a place but she needs all the money up front. I just kept hearing her say "and he wants all of the money." DH did say "You shouldn't even be in that situation in the first place." and then OSD said something about YSD because DH said "Don't put this on YSD". He says I'll talk to you tomorrow.

So DH is tight lipped about what is going on. His response "Oh her mother acting like she always does." Yes that is probably true but OSD shouldn't even be living with her mother at this point. But whatever. I just told him... whatever is going on better not affect our household at all.

He already knows that there is no way that OSD even with small children is coming to stay with us. I know that puts DH in a bad spot but it's a deal breaker. She can't even stay for one night.

So I try to go back to sleep. Worried about Lilly, worried about how this OSD bullshit is going to play out.

Wake up this morning and decide to take Lilly to vet. Spend 3 hours there and $538 later. UTI, minor kidney issue and hyper thyroid. Along with dehydration. Treating for UTI and thyroid issue for 3 months. If she isn't feeling better overall after 3 months on meds, then there isn't anything else that can be done that would make sense at her age. I'm glad I got all of her blood and urine checked and I feel better with a plan. She even got an IV for fluids to start feeling better. Poor baby laid in the vets office in the corner on the floor and just slept. So sad.

Still haven't heard officially if SIL is coming. But did see a text from last week to DH from MIL- See you on the 27th. Ummmm okay. Anyone (DH) going to say anything to me???DH said until they are here then he doesn't know if they will change their minds. He has no idea of a plan or what is going on if they do come. Who all is coming or where everyone is at.

We are a go for the yard sale this weekend. That is what I will be doing while DH is doing whatever. I made it clear that since I will be putting in a lot of work with the yard sale that I'm not playing hostess at all. It's on him.

Not asking for opinions on if I am right to feel this way or not- but I am bitter that in-laws are possibly coming and will be possibly staying the whole weekend just to attend a 1 hour ceremony graduation for 500+ kids. There is no party for YSD. My BS will be with his dad. So instead of being able to walk around the house naked and go out to eat and ride the motorcycle we will be stuck in the house with SIL, MIL, a toddler and newborn. Yes I'm being greedy and selfish in feeling this way. Literally every weekend since like December we have had something going on and this is the first weekend to just chill (yard sale aside) and be kid free and relax and enjoy the long weekend and BOOM here they are coming for graduation that I could care less about. (Again just expressing my feelings here, not asking if I am right to feel this way).

So a little stressful week. Not to mention I have to haul up a whole bedroom full of yard sale stuff from the downstairs bedroom (basement) and all that fun stuff.

Thanks for letting me vent