I hope that everyone had a good mother's day. I know that the day can be hard on some of you. (((HUGS)))

DH is notorious for being an ass on MD. Not sure why. However he held out until right before I was going to be bed to be an ass. So nothing like getting pissed off right before bed. But since he waited until night time I do have to say that is some improvement from previous years.

So thinking about previous MDs. My Ex (BS's dad) "ruined" every Mother's Day for me. My very first MD's he got a DUI and I had to bail him out of jail. 2 years after that he was cheating on me and decided to stay out with the girl all night and stayed at her house and then went right to work the next day (MD). So I spent the day upset. My friend told me "Give him for Father's Day what he gave you for Mother's Day." (Basically telling me to go out all night and not come home on FD) Well fast forward to FD and he did the SAME thing. So even if I wanted to go out and stay out all night, I couldn't even do that. So glad I finally got the smarts to leave his ass.

Per being nosey on DH's FB- OSD and BM are fighting. Early last week OSD had been posting vague comments about how she will always love her kids no matter what and her kids will never doubt her love for them.

Come Thursday OSD posted (and tagged BM) on a FB post saying that BM wants her to spend all of her food stamps in one day and BM is mad at OSD for not spending all of her food stamps and she is kicking her out of her house.

Side note- sounds like BM hasn't moved out of her apartment in with her boyfriend that lives close to me, so that is good.

OSD continued to spend the weekend- Mother's Day weekend of all weekends }:) - posting about how she loves her kids and is a real mom, unlike other people. Blah Blah Blah. She even referred to BM as "mom" in a post. As in "I'm living with my "mom" right now but hope to get my own place soon."

BM is who she is... but she has been there for OSD- bailing her out of jail, taking care of her kids while she is in jail, always giving her a place to live when she is homeless all the time.

BM has taught OSD to be the way she is... which is just like her. So really the behavior shouldn't be that surprising. MSD was the same way.

And DH wonders why I don't trust OSD at all. If she turns on her own mother like that... imagine what she would do to me...