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Ninji's picture

We had the skids from the 6th until 12th. DH brought them to BM on the 12th and she was supposed to bring SS back to us on the 16th.

On Friday, DH gets a text from BM stating that her husband has moved out (not the first time) and can DH please pick SS up from her house on Sunday. DH told her No. She then said she really needed the favor as she will be cooking on Sunday. DH told her No. She then said she would give him gas money. He still told her No.....See, her husband was the one that always dropped SS off to us while she sat at home on her ass.

I was so impressed with DH. I told him I was proud of him for standing up to her.

Earlier that day, he told me to contact the lawyer about changing the CS. I asked him if this was going to change anything. He told me no. It was her problem and he still wanted me to contact the lawyer.

Then yesterday out of nowhere, BM sends DH this text "Before you ask, we are divorcing because he is refusing to grow up and be a man"

DH ignored her.

Again, I told him I was proud of him and it was so refreshing to see this. He said unless it has to do with the kids and something important with the kids. He doesn’t want anything to do with her.

In the past, he and BM was all up in each other's business. We've had many many fights about it.

Invasion of the body snatchers?

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Ninji's picture

Yes, it was strange. SS even came home and said stepdad moved out and DH said that was between stepdad and BM. Usually DH want's any "intel" he can get about BM.

Acratopotes's picture

wow - good for you DH...... please let me know what he drank and ate the 48 hours before his short NO to BM...

Maybe I should change my SO's diet }:)

WalkOnBy's picture

guess I can add this to the long list of things for which I am thankful to the good Captain Smile

Ninji's picture

I love me some Capt Morgan...Just gives me crazy heartburn.

Maxwell09's picture

Good! I'm glad he's disengaging from BM's antics. It'll make everything run smoother and you'll finally start to be able to breath. I will say that in this case it just shows how different one BM can be from the next, as I read your post I couldn't help but think that if BM ever lost her transportation and she needed DH to come pick up SS instead and he refused, she would just say "okay then I'm keeping him until you come get him" even though she is ordered to return him home.

Dontfeedthetrolls's picture

If it is in the CO that she transport him for x reason then she would be in contempt of the court if she does not.

Boyfriend (biodad) is currently creating the CO and because biomom works 16 hour shifts on the weekend there is NO WAY she can come pick up the kids. She has offered to reduce child support if he complete her part of the transportation.

However a standing order takes place. Parents can be flexible if they wish but if not then CO is in this case law.

not2sureimsaneanymore's picture

If an alien bursts through his chest cavity and goes on a rampage, be a dear and warn us here first? This way we can prepare for the apocalypse. Biggrin

hereiam's picture

BM is probably wondering what in the heck is going on. I hope she doesn't ramp it up, trying to get his attention. If she does, help your DH to stand strong! It will be worth it, in the end.

Ninji's picture

Now that her extra paycheck, I mean husband is gone..I'm sure her crazy is going to ramp back up. She has given us SS before and taken him back because she needs the money. This time I don't think she would have a leg to stand on because we have enrolled him in a different school and I'm calling a lawyer today.