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Quick.....Someone Pinch Me! DH Told Twit

shes driving me crazy in my retirement's picture

he isn't going to be putting in her door or windows. That she should pay someone to do it or she and her sons (the losers) should give it a try!

I can tell you it shocked the begesus out of me when I heard him tell her this on the phone this morning. Wow!!

I could hear her starting to cry and blubber and whine and DH repeated it stronger and louder. At that time she must have hung the phone up on him.

I must have looked stunned, holding my coffee cup midair to my mouth because he said, to me, that it was too damn hot for him to do something like that and he is too damn old. He said he wasn't going to do that, dog sit or chase after Drunkie either.

Seems on Father's Day Twit was crying to him that they can never get away because she doesn't dare leave the Drunkie by himself, that he can't be counted on to feed dogs, etc. DH says that was a big hint that she was looking for him to offer. I didn't hear that, but a lot of time I wasn't paying attention to Twit and the nonsense and fables she tells. Guess they bought a time share somewhere and haven't been able to use it because they don't dare leave the Drunkie alone. Aw Gee, my heart just bleeds for her (that was meant to be sarcastic).

As I said, something must have happened back at the end of March because his total attitude toward her changed immensely. I sooo wanted to ask him if he believed the short term memory loss she is crying about but managed to hold my tongue.

In a way I am peeved because if he had stood up to her like that 5 years ago it would have been so much better for both of us and my health as well as his.

catsmom01's picture

Oh wow!!! Good for him!! That's great that he just kept shutting it down.

My bf is too scared of Princess to tell her NO. Instead he just won't respond to her texts or makes up excuses.

And yes...how nice if they would have learned to do this many decades ago. Maybe their offspring would have turned out a little better.

Powerfamily's picture

Good for your DH, I suspect twit not talking to him for months, and you looking for somewhere else to live. Has given him some space and time to think about how his life is when twit involved and how good it is when twit isn't.

shes driving me crazy in my retirement's picture

I think you are right on there. Her giving him the ignoring, silent treatment when she isn't getting what she wants speaks volumes. I mean how many times can he keep accepting her feeble excuses - it got lost in the mail, I've been sooo busy, I have short term memory, and the list goes on. I think he has finally gotten the truth which is she doesn't care UNLESS she WANTS something. She sure the heck has no problem calling when she WANTS something.

Let's pray it stays this way.

Rags's picture

Applause!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Great news. Way to go to you both. Alignment is finally happening and Twit will have to start to deal with her own life for a change instead of pawning the unpleasant stuff off onto daddy.

sandye21's picture

Glad for both of you that he decided to tell her he won't do it. Just wonder if your recent health scare made him take another look at his priorities? It is good you held your tongue about the short-term memory issue. He's probably heard enough from Twit. Good for DH!!!

shes driving me crazy in my retirement's picture

Hi Sandye - I think my recent health issues have had a big impact on him regarding Twit.

I also think that old adge "Happy wife, happy life" has also sunken in. We have been married 22 years and until we moved down here and had to deal with Twit never had the problems she has caused.