Please tell me I’m not overreacting
So every Saturday all three of our kids have chores clean room and clean bathroom equally. I walked in to check on the progress and low and behold there were boogers wiped on every surface of the bathroom. The walls, the doorknobs, the doors, the shower ect. There was food wiped on the walls, there was brown substance wiped on the door and I know exactly who the culprit is my 17 year old stepson. I'm absolutely disgusted by him, I can't even look at him right now. My husband refused to say anything so I did. My mother in law also confirmed that he used to wipe boogers on the walls at her house. I'm absolutely concerned and disgusted. So from here on out he's going to clean th bathroom on his own and will be supervised as well as his room. I don't know how much longer I can take him being here. He also destroyed the door knob from going in and out of the bathroom constantly. My husband says well you can't prove that but it's him but he's the one that's constantly in there with the fan on. How do I keep my sanity for the next 4 months? And yes I already see a therapist because of all this.