Maybe it's time for me to disengage from anything having to do with SS17, I can't handle it and honestly my main concern is my husband and my two younger kids. My husband is doing what needs to be done and isn't enabling any behavior but I think for my sanity I need to step back. It might be hard to keep my mouth shut but it may be what's best. I feel as though this is his mother and fathers problem not mine. And my husband will be leaving for a month for work in August of next year and I told him flat out that SS17 will have to leave because I will not take on that alone. He may end up leaving before then because we have set standards he must follow and is failing miserably. He just got his grades back and of course all bad. He also got written up today and still has no job. I think it's time to shut it all out and wipe my hands clean. If I can just get through the next 7 months that would be great lol. I took for granted how peaceful our home was and I want it back. Any tips on disengagement and is it the right thing to do?