It's been a couple months I think since I've been on here but my household is an absolute nightmare and I'm counting down the days until my SS leaves my home. He's been nothing but negative energy in this home. I didn't want him here in the first place. I got sick with stomach issues so the last thing on my mind was this lazy disrespectful manipulative man child. Now that I'm on the mend I just wish he would go. The holidays aren't exciting, my husband is even fed up. He's still failing school, finally got a job but not sure how long he will keep it. His mother has told him when he moves back he cannot stay with her and then he calls his grandparents and starts talking crap about this household to them. He says it's unfair of what's expected of him and he's bored here. He's expected to do a 4 hour alternative school, pass classes, have a job and do chores. He acts like that is way too much to handle. Unfortunately this man child has been coddled his whole life and now we are reaping the consequences of it. I blame his mother and father for it. He throws tantrums when he's asked to do the simplest things like chores or cleaning up his room or closing the pantry door so the dogs don't get in the trash. He saw our dog throw up on his carpet and didn't clean it up. When I say I'm fed up, I mean it. He's about to be 18 and his future looks grim. He constantly blames everyone but himself for his problems, says he's feeling off and life is unfair. Gee I wonder why lol. My home doesn't feel like a home and everyone in the house feels it. My husband has stuck to his guns and not enabled him but I also feel like he needs to get firm when speaking to him because talking nice isn't cutting it. I asked my SS to stay out of his brothers room twice because he had a fever and wasn't feeling great, he roiled his eyes and laughed in my face when I told him to leave the room. I asked him are you pulling an attitude with me right now? And his response is how do you know? Lol is it wrong to want him out of my house like today and is it wrong to want to see what happens when he has no where to turn to because he has burned so many bridges? He will not come to my home ever again after this but in all honesty I don't think he will ever return. He hates rules and structure and is content with being a high school drop out, with no car and a dead end job. It's honestly sad to watch. Thanks for reading my disorganized rant.