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Boogers on my furniture... again

Silent14's picture

We've been struggling with SD15 wiping boogers on our sofa and walls for years. Each time DH makes her clean it and usually gives her another punishment also. She stops long enough that we stop checking behind her. It's been about a 9 month booger-free streak until today. I'm so annoyed and she is WAY too old to be doing this still. She has even wiped boogers on the couch when the box of tissues was literally 4 inches away on the side table.

She's only here every other weekend which makes consequences difficult. I'm also disengaged and let DH handle these things. But this is my house too and my furniture too. I need it to stop ASAP.

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ProbablyAlreadyInsane's picture

And put red socks in with all her white things }:) (if she does her own laundry this still works... LOL)

hereiam's picture

This is disgusting, and I'm sorry, but I would not have someone in my home who was deliberately doing this. She knows better.

I would put them all on her pillow, along with some extra of my own.

Cooooookies's picture

I caught SS15 doing this a couple times. I'd tell him to just wipe them off a few times. After that I told him that he'd be wiping the booger up and cleaning the entire thing he put it on. Which was a wall and my dining room table. I would have made him scrub the entire wall from top to bottom and all of the table and six chairs.

He thought better of it and stopped. Maybe your SD works like my SS...make doing what is right easier than being punished. If the punishment is far more work, then he does what he's supposed to do. As getting up, grabbing a tissue and wiping the booger in the tissue was far less effort and time than scrubbing an entire wall or polishing a table and six chairs.

All about making it easier to do what is right than taking the shortcut that will end up costing them more time and energy.

queensway's picture

This girl in 15. Very strange behavior for a girl this age. No manners. Gross. I would say something to her. Like you said this is your home to.

Thumper's picture

We experienced dh's kids (teens) wiping poop and also mucus on our walls.

We know why they did it.

hereiam's picture

Why?

mommadukes2015's picture

ULLLLHHHH Boogers and loogies I CANNOT deal. I will literally wretch.

If someone wiped boogers on my couch I would vomit. Then I would make the booglar clean both up. Yikes.

Veritas's picture

I don't know what has me so tickled today but I am sitting here with TEARS streaming down my face over the use of the word *booglar*....LMAO!!!!!

secret's picture

Gross. that's one area I would definitely engage in.

"Hey, SD, that's MY couch you're sitting on, and I don't appreciate you wiping your snots on it - if I catch you again, I'm going to start wiping MY snots on YOUR stuff. If you insist on picking your nose elsewhere than a bathroom, use a tissue, because it's disgusting and unsanitary."

And if DH had ANYTHING AT ALL to say about it, it had better be "she's right, use a tissue."

GhostWhoCooksDinner's picture

Well...on the plus side, she's not eating them? When DH and I got on YSS about his bedroom wall that was decorated with a booger mural and made him scrub it, he just started eating them instead. :sick:

hereiam's picture

Maybe you should go furniture shopping and present your husband with an estimate of what it will cost. Since you don't know exactly everywhere she might have boogered, a lot of furniture will have to be replaced, just to be on the safe side.

Silent14's picture

That's the worst part... most of our furniture is new. We bought a new home last year and replaced much of our furniture around the same time.

Totheend12345's picture

That child would not be allowed on the couch, she can sit in her own room and snot it up.

Acratopotes's picture

I have no advice lol.... just laughing about all the comments, you lot rock...

the booger girl

depressedme's picture

yuck that’s so disgusting!! Why wtf is wrong with her!!! I’d go for some humiliation tactics do that again and I’m going to post a pic of it on social media and tell all your friends how gross you are haha!!

FrenchPeas's picture

We had a grown ass adult woman doing this in the bathroom at work. Flushed her out by her nail polish being smeared next to one. Gross ass woman!!