SD's 19yo BOYFRIEND DEMANDING WE PAY
I recently took the reins and told the SD I was not paying for OUT OF STATE TUITION (entitled adult stepchildren)where her boyfriend was also going. I did tell her I would pay for one more semester of IN STATE TUITION. I needed to share this is the letter the BF wrote to my DH:
> I thought we agreed that from our phone call on you were going to talk to your daughter like an adult. You, personally, as her biological father.
> Do you understand that you owe her this money? You left there family and you ruined her childhood. You owe her this money as someone who did all that and as someone who is trying to be a decent person on this planet.
> This is how this is working. You owe (BD). So where ever you get that money from isnt of her concern. If you take it from (your wife) than (your wife) should be yelling at you to pay her back. If you dont want to deal with that, then go to a bank a take out a loan.
> Thanks for ruining ANOTHER week of (BD’s) life when you could have been an adult and picked up the goddamn phone.