After dealing with my DH's inability to contain his BK's insolence toward me, because fear of losing their love--I have had enough. He has pilfered 35K from my business account to pay for out of state tuition (10k/semester) with a full ride, spending money and a sorority.
I have cut off the bank of me. Not wanting to strand the SD I offered to pay for one more semester-- instate only--no housing. Yes, this was my DH's fault to let this happen, but she owns this just as much--being 21 years old. She told "Daddy" it was unnecessary for me to make her out to be an "unappreciative naive child". (Oh Pleeeeeeaaaaase!)
The same went for his BS, 25yo. My DH, allowing him to be rude to me in our house, was my limit. I told my DH his son was not going to be rude to me again in my/our house. I would frog march him out the front door.
Now my DH feels as though I have muddied the waters, engages his BK as if there is nothing wrong, never breaching the issues. My DH wont admit he took advantage of me and my funds to save face with his BKs and now treats me with contempt.
Now I'm the bad guy?
All of you can go f*** yourselves. I'm done!