I am just fed up with BM's lack of responsibility for EVERYTHING that is required of a normal functioning adult... there has GOT to be something wrong with her. I swear, she is 30, but she acts 17...

So here are the things that I have decided are completely impossible for BM to actually DO:

1. GET SS TO SCHOOL ON TIME. Why is this??? She just can't get her lazy a$$ out of bed. It's not like he has to be there at 5 in the morning. 7:50. That's not too much to ask. Yet he has been late so often while in her care that he has gotten detention. SAD. I sent an email to his teacher beggin for mercy for him. Poor little guy is being punished because his mom is a TWIT.

2. DATE SOMEONE OTHER THAN DH'S HIGHSCHOOL BUDDIES. She has finally broken down and is dating his LAST friend that she hasn't sunk her STD ridden claws in to. This one happened to be DH's BEST FRIEND all through highschool. Sick. She has issues.

3. NOT SMOKE WITH SS AROUND HER. In the car, right outside the front door of their house... it doesn't matter, she doesn't care that he is prone to respitory problems and it is just plain and simply KILLING HER SON.

4. PAY HER OWN BILLS. Her daddy pays her rent. She doesn't even LOOK for a job. She lives in a little disgusting shack and drives a POS truck that also belongs to her daddy. She can't keep a job to save her life. She has been fired from the last 3 for attendance. She can't get out of bed to get SS to school, she sure doesn't get out of bed to get to work. LAZY.

5. CLEAN HER HOUSE. It is disgusting. She doesn't work, hasn't for more than 3 of the 5 years that DH and I have been together. What the H*LL does she do all day long??? CLEAN YOUR HOUSE, what kind of a mom are you???? I work 50 hours or more a week and can manage to keep my house spotless. I have 3 kids... she has 1... I have 5 people to do laundry for, and 3 kids lunches to make... and a 3500 sq ft house to keep up... I can do it... so can she. In her 500 sq ft shack. Her sink is constantly filled with filthy dishes and food left on the stove in pots for DAYS. Nasty.

6. QUIT SMOKING WEED. At least when SS is with her. She waits until he is fast asleep and lights up. Now I know that there are a lot of hard working Americans that do this... BUT, she makes her Dad pay her rent, but SHE buys POT... AND she has 4 days a week WITHOUT SS there... she can do that crap on those days, can't she... not to mention it is ILLEGAL!

7. DO LAUNDRY. I swear she has ruined 90% of SS's clothes. It really pisses me off when it is the clothes we have bought. I don't care if she wants to ruin the hand me downs that she finds for him, but I spend good, HARD EARNED money on clothes for that boy...

8. COOK DINNER. They eat McDonalds and Burger King 4 times a week. That kid is pumped full of processed chicken, and by the time he comes home he is so constipated that he spends the whole time on the toilet.

9. COMMON SENSE. Yesterday SS was home sick from school. He threw up all day Sunday. I kept him home. Since BM doesn't work. I took him over to her house during the day so she could watch him. She sent me a picture of him playing outside with short sleeves on. It is about 43 degrees here during the day. Ok, so he isn't puking anymore... now he is going to catch pnumonia. Great.

Oh gosh... there are so very many more to list... but I have to get back to work. I just had to get that off my chest before I go home and take it out on DH. I am just so frustrated lately. What a flippin loser she is.